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Parelli Natural HorseManShip Cake Recipe

Parelli Natural HorseManShip Cake Recipe

I have never posted a recipe or a photograph of food here on EHTT before. I just love blogs where people post colorful photos of their beautifully-prepared meals and recipes to go along. On the rare occasion when I have time I read them with with delight. So I thought I’d make an effort today to join in the fun with this recipe and photo. It’s important to note that this is not intended to be snarky or mean. My daughter, who loves that kind of blog, found this recipe for a Jonestown Kool-Aid Cake at and forwarded it to me, where I saw the potential, and (if you ignore the sadness, which is hard to do but play along with me) decided to share it with you. What inspired this departure from my usual format?

Responses to the Parelli Parade of Preposterousness!

Unlike certification in Parelli NH or a trip to the ER for a cracked skull, it only costs about $3 to bake this cake. photo courtesy apocalypsecakes.wordpress.com


I think it needs a little crash helmet ornament on top.

The most thoughtful response to the Parelli Parade of Preposterousness! was by Kerry of Hoofbeats, who said,

In martial arts the one thing I did learn is that you take what is good and useful for yourself from every disipline. One should never ever ever stop thinking for oneself. Does it make sense to you? Does it work for you? If it does, use it. If it doesn’t, discard it. You are just as smart as everyone else. You are just as smart as Linda or Pat.

Sometimes we get “in the thrall” of trainers, especially those who are really good at promoting themselves. This is one situation where cherrypicking is a great idea. Before you take a bite of that cake, think for yourself.


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Parelli Parade of Preposterousness

Parelli Parade of Preposterousness

From a recent visit to an online equestrian forum:

I am sending this to a couple different groups as I feel it is important to get the word out to potential Parelli followers. As many of you know, I am currently recovering from a brain injury from a fall from a horse this summer. This was a green horse but he spooked while I was getting off, something any horse could do and the odds of a serious accident on a horse finally caught up with me. One thing I have noticed is an ad for Parelli and Linda is jumping a horse bareback and no helmet. Also while I was bedridden I watch a couple of his episodes and he had a a young person who was physically disabled riding without a helmet and it was obvious her balance was not good. I sent a letter to Parellis asking them to please advocate the use of helmets. This is their reply, which I think is totally STUPID coming from professionals.

Patti – w.wa

Does this look like a good idea to you?

Does this look like a good idea to you?

205-0025The Parelli Faculty’s response:

Hi Patti,

Thank you for taking the time to write us. We understand your views and concerns. As quoted by the faculty at our ranch:

You are quite right – helmets are fabulous things and they save many lives. Tragically though, people who ARE wearing helmets also die or suffer serious head injuries in accidents with horses.

Our program is intended to address the safety problem at its root – which is behavioral – rather than address the symptoms of it. Our message is about developing the relationship with the horse, and the savvy level of the rider, so that unsafe behavior is addressed long before the rider gets on the horse – rather than allowing the unsafe situations to continue to occur and hope that the helmet, body protector, etc, will protect us from the consequences.

The reason you do not see our people wearing helmets is because we try to teach people that rather than be brave because they are wearing a a helmet to protect them, they would be better off not riding until their horse is behaving safely.

People have called us brave for not wearing helmets, but we say they are a lot braver than we are. We would not get on their horse until we had addressed the issues that cause it to behave in unsafe ways.

We hope this helps,

From the Faculty, Parelli Centers

As a fascinating conclusion to this insanity, a post about Linda Parelli’s recent fall.

People respect this man’s organization enough to send them a great deal of their hard-earned cash. I understand that there is a lot to be learned from any trainer, especially one so accomplished as Pat Parelli. Yet I hoped that he would feel the responsibility incumbent upon him by virtue of all those faithful adherents and send out a message in support of safety and security. Doesn’t Parelli Natural Horsemanship have lawyers?

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